One reason many people never live up to there own potential is that they live their lives based on trying to please others.
The others can include, parents, siblings, friends, coworkers and bosses.
 

The problem with this as I see it is that your happiness is the only happiness you should be responsible for. As they should be the only one responsible for their happiness.
 

When we live to make others happy or rely on others to make us happy we will generally end up being very unhappy most of the time.
 

When you come to the realization that you should be the source of your own happiness, your whole world will change. Now does that mean that you move off to a deserted island for the rest of your life? No. 

We do need others to live a fulfilled life and other people in this world need us as well.
 

The key is to become a person who provides value. Value that others are willing to pay you for and that you can profit from.
 

And you have to provide value… FIRST!
  

In Napoleon Hill’s great book, Think and Grow Rich, he states that you start with what you desire first. And then you have to determine what you are going to give in return (service you are going to provide) for what you desire.
 

And then you need to get busy providing that service. Once you make this a habitual way of thinking and acting it becomes very easy to make huge strides in your life. Make sure to visit http://www.habitbustingsystem.com , this is a wonderful resource that can help you make you habits serve you not hurt you.
  

Here’s to Your LifetoSuccess,
 

John Clark
 

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